Is the mirror happy?
Or is it sad?
or is it bad?
To the seer it says –
Why do you ask
questions that I
Wipe off the dust
And wash off the grime
See me reflect the
I think we would all agree that whatever we do in life, it is simply because we want to be happy.
Be it a desire for money, success, fame, knowledge, love or anything else that might be THE thing that we covet or crave for ourselves or for our loved ones. Bottom line: we want it because we feel it will make us happy. And inevitably there are times when we don’t get what we want or desire. Consequence: We are unhappy and experience pain. This is the story of the human existence since the beginning. And not much has changed since.
But really, need it be like that?
Most of our pain results from resistance to what IS. We do not get what we so badly want and we think it’s so unjust to not get what we want or think we deserve. And sometimes we get what we don’t want and believe we don’t deserve: Loss, illness, poverty, a lack of success, violence and abuse. The list is endless. And ironically sometimes, we DO get what we want and find that we are still not happy! For we never expected the consequences of getting what we wanted. Or that the goal post has changed and expectations have increased. And we are back to square one. Still unhappy.
None of us are immune to the ravages of life. Life can be painful but I also believe that we aggravate our pain exponentially by resisting it. By telling ourselves stories about it. About how dreadful it is. We wallow in it and grow more attached to our pain. As if we were unique and the only ones to suffer. How arrogant!
Once we accept that that no one is immune, we lose the self-pity and stop resisting. And once we start accepting the IS, I think we have a real chance of happiness. Because then we can start focussing on what we DO have. This is nothing new, this simple concept of the glass: half full or half empty. It has been around I think, from the time humans began to question their existence. I for one know that I can’t remind myself enough of it. There is great practical benefit in reminding oneself of all the things one DOES have and be grateful for it. It makes for a great sense of happiness in life. As a sense of entitlement can actually become the cause of a great deal of grief.
Life is so much like a game of Billiards.
We aim and cannon the cue ball hoping that it will net the Red ball and score. But the aim might be wrong, the balls scattered and the end result completely beyond comprehension. Unless of course, we develop such a consummate skill and such an innate capacity in understanding the workings of the universe that we know precisely which ball to hit and where it will go. Perhaps thats why we are here in the first place. To learn to hit the ball so that we net the happiness. But then again, equating happiness with ‘getting’ something is itself the cause of unhappiness! A contradiction.
Often when I look back on my life, I realise that all the little things that I thought went ‘wrong’ or didn’t ‘get’ actually formed a choreography of events that eventually led to all the ‘Right’ things. The ‘Right’ was not even what I wanted or expected. But it was still RIGHT at that precise moment. Whether I liked it or not. And acceptance of THAT made me lighter and happier as a person.
When I talk of acceptance, I certainly do not mean passivity or lack of positive action. I simply mean the mental state of equanimity, no matter what the externals are at that point, whether positive or negative. Ultimately even those are perceptions. It is only time that reveals whether what was, was really positive and in our best interest. Or Not.
The specifics of what we want don’t really matter that much. They are simply heavy and unnecessary baggage that we lug around day in and day out. Letting go of the baggage of desires and expectations is actually letting go of unnecessary burden. What a relief that is! Creating space for life to unfold as it naturally would without our constant Egoic interference, feels as natural as breathing.
In the scheme of the universe, in the cosmic lifetime, our life is simply a blink. Before we know it, it’s over. So let’s just play the Game of Billiards and enjoy it without getting too involved in the ideas of Winning or Losing!
The Green shoots out
And stretches towards life
As the slumbering,
Careful earth cups it close
To its heart with unspoken
Life fountains out
In a joyous gush as
The greys merge into blues
And the wisps of white
and sometimes descend
hugging the frozen earth
warming it in joyous
How perfect the
How beautiful the
I bow to the sublime
Dance of eternity
Continued in infinity
In life’s eternal
A wonderful blogger recently asked me to share my thoughts and views Religion and spirituality.
My response was as follows:
I have never identified myself with labels, whether nationalistic, religious or otherwise. The more I have seen the world the more I see the unity as opposed to differences, which are so very superficial. The joys and sorrows, the pain and happiness that govern a human life are fundamentally the same no matter, which country, religion, race or culture they belong to. Parents feel same joys and sorrows for their children, lovers the same love – what might differ is the external expression of those things. The expression being deemed as acceptable or not depending on the cultural conditioning. Ultimately everything that we tend to identify ourselves by is nothing but conditioning. Even nationalistic feeling, though considered to be a good thing can ultimately be detrimental when compared to the unity of the human experience – as it tends to separate man from man and woman from woman.
Anything that comes in the way of the unified human experience of love, which takes us away from basic fundamental human emotions and experiences of empathy, compassion – cannot be close to divinity. All spiritual paths, whatever names they go by, ultimately lead to the same destination. To claim that only one is true and the rest not so – is ludicrous. HE, SHE or IT that is all pervasive and has created the entire universe – how can such an intelligent presence differentiate between the very things it has created? That is pure indoctrination of the human mind by the human mind for nothing but control and power. How can love for God exist where no love for his creation exists!
Inner experience shows – that the more one advances, the more the labels fall off, the less is the insistence on a specific self limiting identity. How can that which is infinite be defined in finite terms? This is what i feel. The more one grows, the freer one is from small, narrow limitations; the more the walls break down. The more is the expansion of love. Not only does that love extend towards ones near or dear ones but it expands in ever widening concentric circles to include all societies, all nations, the world and ultimately the universe. It all exists within us.
The creator and the created are identical, the same holiness pervades all creation.
It grows and grows,
an endless spidery web,
of wants and desires,
Life – caught in silvery,
taken over, engulfed, drowned,
not knowing that it’s even happening.
Enamored by the Golden cage,
forever on a hamster’s wheel,
spinning, spinning, spinning!
Breathe – I say to myself,
Let it go, let it go, let it All go!
Lighter, freer, oh to float,
to open the cage and get off the wheel – what bliss!
More is Gold – the world howls!
Bigger is better – it screams!
Climb and claw, fight to get it All – it preaches,
buy more and get more
you are worth it – it entices!
For without it All – you are Nothing- it hisses!
You are only the things you own – it proclaims!
Oh, how we curdle in fear, how we buy into the lie.
What a web!
What an enticing illusion,
No more, no more, no more –
I will be caught no more.
I fly with glee, my mind will be free.
I begin the untangling,
Free to simply Be.
All I see –
A world filled with
Chasms and trenches
Differences and distances
Murder and mayhem
Ego and anger
And I feel –
Isn’t it time
to take a mirror to oneself?
Isn’t it time
To acknowledge the pain?
Isn’t it time
To wipe off the tears
And stop the madness?
Isn’t it time to
Of understanding and acceptance
Of sympathy and empathy
Of generosity and gratitude
And above all –
Of love and compassion…
A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!
MAY IT BE FILLED WITH JOY AND PEACE!
There nestled two villages –
on opposite sides of
a majestic mountain
but never had the twain –
seen each other.
There nestled two villages –
idyllic and as pretty as could be
heady with the fragrance of roses but –
Red in one and White in the other.
There nestled two villages –
with beauteous women and men
that strutted with chests puffed and swords –
that gleamed and glistened.
And then one day, there arose a rumour –
skies darkened and lightning struck
and blood thirsty cries rose –
in a thunderous and murderous chorus.
“How can Roses be Red?”
“How can Roses be White!”
“How can that possibly be true?”
“Kill those liars! Kill for ’tis definitely untrue!”
And so, they disbelieved each other and cried –
“Sharpen your swords! Get on your horses!”
“Kill those liars! And save your souls!”
“For our truth is the only Truth!”
“For it cannot –
And so they clawed and clambered
to the top of the majestic mountain
and fought and fought and fought
and their children and their children –
And killed and killed and killed
For their truths –
Roses could only be Red!
Roses could only be White!
How could it possibly be otherwise!
And they continue to disbelieve each other –
And continue to fight
their bloody and brutal fight
and trample upon Roses both –
Red and White
And now there are Roses –
And now there are children –
Gold under my feet
scrunched up and unnoticed
Its beauty no lesser…
Gold in the heart
Hidden and unknown
Its love no less pure…
Gold in the earth
Undiscovered and covered
Its glow no dimmer…
So what if the gallery’s empty
So what if there’s no audience
So what if there’s no applause
Gold shines and beauty blooms
And love still spreads its fragrance
In a world
This haiku has now been published in the Journal ‘When Women Waken’.
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